Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Monday, July 25, 2011

Ready or not Here I Cum


Sex is a wonderful thing and the pressure to perform should be out of your mans mind.  Men don’t want to let us down and ladies you know sometimes sex may not last as long as we like.  It could be a first time or you may just have him really worked up, whatever the case maybe the fact of the matter is, it may not last long. 

This is not a bad thing trust me on this.  My first time with my boyfriend was intense well for me it was.  There was sexual tension between us and I couldn’t get undressed fast enough.  There wasn’t much foreplay our first time I have to admit.  We were so into the moment and I was enjoying every minute of it.  We were in the bed as fast as the clothes would come off and I was mounting him.  I started slow and could tell he was really into it and my pace increased.  He was telling me to slow down and I knew what that meant.  He wanted to last and please me.  I smiled and said “Cum, this is just a warm up, we have all night.”  Just like that he exploded and we kissed and got dressed and enjoyed the rest of the night together with all of the pressure about performance gone.  That night after our date we went back for round two.  It was amazing, for one we got that first nut out of the way and he was able to last longer and two he felt more comfortable with me.

Four months later we are still together and our sex life is amazing.  I am 35 yrs old and never before enjoyed sex so much as I do now.  One of my biggest enjoyments is making him cum quickly.  When I have sex its not all about me, my focus is on pleasuring him.  I don’t believe in rushing every time but it gives me more of an emotional high from pleasing him.